Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off when you're in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty w/out makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you. The one who turns to his friends and says, “that’s Her!" then when you have found all that, make for certain that he is good and in love with you and break his heart bit by bit. Tell him you are not ready for a relationship, that you have way to much fun with your friends, that you are way too young and you want to see what else is out there. Do this until he feels like there is no reason for living and that all his emotions and efforts are complete failures. After that give him a good year or two to get over you and let him start to enjoy life again. Then start to realize that there are better girls out there. When this occurs make sure to realize that what you lost in him was genuine and there may be plenty of wealthier, successful, stronger, hotter, athletic, and more prestigious men in the world. This then helps you come to the conclusion that you lost the man whose best trait in life was making you happy, and being in love with you. This will then cause you to run back into his life and proclaim your love for him, because you have had your fun and you are ready to grow up. Your man will be shocked and you will put him through a brief period of hell because he has a new girl and he thinks he has his life figured out. Then just like in the movies after a few days of thought, he will come back to you and tell you are amazing and he that he wondered what took so long. After he looks you in your eyes and all the happy memories of your relationships past play through your head like an old school flicker show, he will KISS YOU, on your cheek and tell you that you missed your fucking chance, and the girl he has now is cooler than you will ever be and smarter too because she knows what to look for in a man.